http://strengtheningmarriage.com/blog/sex/sexual-incompatibility/ Official Weblog of Author and Intimacy Educator Laura M. Brotherson Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:44:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2 http://strengtheningmarriage.com/blog/sex/sexual-incompatibility/#comment-115 Mark Tue, 04 Dec 2007 10:23:41 +0000 http://strengtheningmarriage.com/blog/sex/sexual-incompatibility/#comment-115 Sexual Compatibility, in my experience, is certainly a dynamic thing. It's no more constant than my waistline (which does shrink as well as grow)! At the present time, our compatibility issues seem to centre around the fact that I am unable to caress my wife in any way. I am able to hug her so long as I don't linger and kiss her but there is NO 'foreplay'. Instead, at her insistance we go straight to the so called 'good stuff' and remarkably she often reaches orgasm, but I somehow feeled cheeted of the tenderness and sharing that I feel should have preceded that intense stage. This is a relatively recent developement in what has often been a bumpy road of life. Sexual Compatibility, in my experience, is certainly a dynamic thing. It’s no more constant than my waistline (which does shrink as well as grow)! At the present time, our compatibility issues seem to centre around the fact that I am unable to caress my wife in any way. I am able to hug her so long as I don’t linger and kiss her but there is NO ‘foreplay’. Instead, at her insistance we go straight to the so called ‘good stuff’ and remarkably she often reaches orgasm, but I somehow feeled cheeted of the tenderness and sharing that I feel should have preceded that intense stage. This is a relatively recent developement in what has often been a bumpy road of life.

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